Okay so the blog was originally only supposed to be business updates, but what fun is that?
Brian had posted something on his facebook page about moving towards what you want or away from what you don't. I was thinking about that yesterday when Heather was um..complaining...(she does that sometimes) about several different people all on the same day giving her a difficult time. Why? She's legally blind/visually impaired - she can see a little big of color if it's super bright and some motion if she's looking right at it - and that's about it. And so people feel compelled to comment to her when she is trying to get around to her doctor's appointments.
Now, mind you, different people at different points on her journey made these comments to her "Your life is so much worse than mine, I had felt bad about my life, but now looking at you, I feel okay now", "I would kill myself if I were you", and "I don't know why you even try". Okay, and those were just 3 of her favorites from that one day. And people wonder why she doesn't like to leave the house anymore, lol.
From the point of view of these people, they would be moving away from the reality of her life, which is difficult (she has other disabilities too that interfere with her ability to walk amongst other things - some of this would be visible to an outside observer) And I think much of the time she would like to move away from her reality as well. I try to have the focus that we still have each other, we still have (most of the time) our sense of humor (which is usually dark and sometimes very very wrong) and I still have that feeling when I see her of being completely in love. It eases my pain, it eases my suffering, it makes my life worth living. And I don't care if a business or a job or another relationship or the world or anything else is wrong sometimes so long as I can turn and just know that she is there. I don't really care if we're at a doctor or we can't do something because she isn't healthy enough at that moment - if I'm reading some comic book to her that's enough or if she tells me one of the ten million corny jokes she likes and I laugh, that's enough.
And so the point of all of this is - what do you want? Much of my motivation to be successful comes from the desire to be affluent enough to be able to provide the kind of resources and support she needs to be able to live more easily, more pain-free and thrive. That costs money! Another part of my motivation comes from something I learned from her back when I watched her run a non-profit - we don't live in a vacuum, it's our responsibility and privilege to care about others as well - and there's a part of you that is missing when you don't. So affluence for me means giving back to communities in need in various ways. And the rest of my motivation comes from wanting to be able to have a lot of cool stuff :) Seriously, you get the idea - our motivation is broken up into parts - shared a few of mine to help get you thinking about yours...
And you say, wow, what happened, not normally so chatty. Well, blame Patty. The chat on her site is so cool, it has made me chatty. Don't believe me, come join us on October 24th 2010 to see if we can break her chat room. How many people can we cram in
there. Nobody tell the safety inspector... And there I go back to business, lol - you knew it had to happen
And finally, yes, it is a new week and so yes, there are more trivia questions over at
Autumn Harvest Traffic. Surf and find 'em and answer them to claim your winnings. Answer them correctly that is... And see if you can do it without searching for the answers in Google....And yes, the Sweet Christmas question is in there.....
Have a great rest of the week
Rob
Rainbow Traffic Solutions